What Is Clean Language?

I talk a lot about Clean Language on this blog. But you may be wondering what Clean Language is, and why it’s interesting. So (thanks to a nudge from a friend on Facebook) I’ve decided it’s time for a few short introductory YouTube videos. Here’s the first one: If you prefer to read your introduction,…

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Why Don’t You Ask More Questions?

Why don’t you ask more questions? It’s a question that’s been nagging me for a while, as I’ve been busy both exhorting people to do more asking – for example, in this video – and training people to ask specific kinds of questions. And (doh!) one possible answer has just struck me. Presumably, something’s stopping…

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Why Don't You Ask More Questions?

Why don’t you ask more questions? It’s a question that’s been nagging me for a while, as I’ve been busy both exhorting people to do more asking – for example, in this video – and training people to ask specific kinds of questions. And (doh!) one possible answer has just struck me. Presumably, something’s stopping…

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Are Second-Hand Metaphors Restricting Your Life?

Are you living your life according to your own metaphors? Or is your system being restricted by ill-fitting second-hand ideas, images and connections? As I’ve mentioned frequently in this blog, the metaphors you use in your thinking (including your subconscious processing) have a profound impact on your behaviour. It’s inevitable, because metaphor is the language…

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Are you a good listener? How do you know?

Are you a good listener? Whether you think you are or not – how would you know? It’s slightly alarming to realise that if you’re NOT a good listener, you probably won’t be aware of that fact! As James Borg points out in his bestselling book Persuasion, it’s one of those things that people are often criticised…

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